She Chose to Sleep with 500+ Men and People Defended Her...
A Harsh Response to the Many Verbose Bumbling Idiots in My Comments.
Sometimes I love the fact that most people are so painfully predictable.
Sometimes I loathe the fact that they are and Iโm baffled at how remarkably stupid and hive minded some of those dumb fucks are.
I mean that. When people in the comments repeated the same counterargument again and again, it just made it easier for me to pick apart.
The other month, I dropped an article about a woman who slept with so many men that she went to the hospital. Iโm still a little shocked that I even had the material to write such an article.
But I was shocked so many women defended her and made excuses for someone in their 20s who WILLINGLY MADE THE CHOICE ALL BY HERSELF. And yet still, pathetic little reprobates made excuses, and some even defended her. At this point, calling it โself-sabotageโ is generous. Itโs more like strapping a grenade to your ego and blaming the patriarchy for pulling the pin.
Annie Knight wasnโt groomed. She wasnโt coerced. She just thought she'd ride the clout train and now wants a refund on public opinion. I mean, she gets off on the attention. Look at thisโฆ
The most annoying part? Thereโs always a group of enablers holding the receipt, standing in a ready-made jerk circle and dying to defend whatever honor she might have left.
This is how far weโve gotten, this is how much the pendulum has shifted, and this is how much women will always be afforded excuses for the terrible decisions they keep making.
Other women rarely, if ever, hold other women accountable, and I find it bizarre.
Here are some of the โGreastest hitsโ of Comments.
Even Though This Was Her Event, They Still Kept Blaming the Men.
This argument is always hilarious to me. A woman could murder 40 people with a gun and someone would say, โwell men do it moreโ Or theyโd say some shit like. โMen created gunsโ.
Listen up motherfuckers, if I write an article about what some women are willingly choosing to do to exploit themselves sexually. The men are a moot point, especially cause itโs like โduh of course the men showing up are just as scummyโ. But theyโre not the subject matter. Itโs this really annoying logical fallacy called whataboutism, which has become a deflection tactic used to avoid responsibility for the choices women make or scrutiny by shifting attention elsewhere.
Cheap, tawdry, archaic, and old.
So when a woman does something objectively harmful, exploitative, or immoral, some people often defenders of ideology (fucking 500 men I guess), not logic, will deflect accountability by saying
โWell, men do it more.โ
โMen were thereโ
โIf men didnโt show up, she couldnโt do it!โ
Or even worse:
โMen created the systems/tools that made it possible.โ
These replies donโt refute the behavior being discussed; itโs just a weird distraction. Itโs like sayingโฆ
โDonโt talk about her robbing a bank, because men commit more robberies.โ
This moral sleight of hand is designed to shut down uncomfortable truths rather than confront them. And itโs cowardly, a move people use on the internet when people canโt see past their biases. A woman could unload a clip on 40 people, and some jabronie would still mumble,
โWellโฆ statistically, men do it more.โ
Or theyโll reach so far into the nonsense jar they pull out their dirty ass cheeks, masquerading limp ideology wearing clown shoes. If Iโm writing about how some women CHOOSE to exploit themselves sexually, donโt throw a smoke grenade labeled โmenโ and hope the conversation disappears.
Not every critique is a comparison. And if your first reaction is to look away or point fingers, maybe youโre not ready for the reflection. Accountability isnโt a competition; itโs a mirror that reflects on where our society currently is. Respectable men arenโt buying this content. Itโs the most perverse, anonymous, and emotionally bankrupt men who are fueling this โempowerment economy.โ So stop name-dropping our gender as if all 4 billion of us showed up to bang this random chick.
The truest equality means we judge actions, not chromosomes. Empowerment without accountability is just self-worship in drag.
Oh, Bryana. The sheer irony of you defending a womanโs right to attention-seeking via an Olympic-grade sex marathon by blaming โthe patriarchyโs rabid appetite for penetrationโ isโฆchefโs kiss. I applaud the NPC's automatic move to โcause patriarchyโ.
If a man slept with 50 women in a week and posted a video crying for validation, youโd be first in line with the pitchforks labeled โtoxic masculinityโ. But slap a ring light on a woman doing it, and suddenly itโs a sociology thesis on how men are to blame for female attention and porn addiction?
I think some would call this misguided absolution by projection.
And no, this isn't some Freudian "male-driven narrative." It's called individual responsibility.
Try it sometime. You might like it.
Youโre not oppressed if youโre monetizing the system with your whole chest while blaming it in the same breath. Capitalism in booty shorts.
Keep moralizing in lowercase while the rest of us shovel through this circus.
Of Course, You Have The โWhite Knight Men.โ
Here to save the day and show the women that โyouโre one of the good onesโ. By calling me out for having an opinion that doesnโt match their worldview. How stunning and brave.
Yeah you can fuck off, too. Iโm not taking prisoners today. These men piss me off.
I always go back to thisโฆ
Ah, Quentin. The brave man standing shirtless in the rain, apologizing on behalf of an entire gender like you personally invented Pornhub in your garage.
This performative knob jockey saidโฆ
โPornography was made by men for menโs pleasure.โ
So was the internet. And plumbing. And insulin. Should we apologize for those, too, or is this just selective guilt cosplay for clout? You say โthat shit is totally on usโ as if women are just unwilling participants dragged into porn sets like hostages.
Itโs 2025, you daft cunt.
Have you ever met a cam girl on OnlyFans? Theyโre not exactly being held at sword point theyโre the ones holding the fucking ring light.
And here's his โmic dropโ.
โThey are as misogynistic as the ones blaming them.โ
A woman films herself degrading herself for cash = internalized misogyny.
A man questions if that might be a cultural problem = externalized misogyny.
Translationโฆ
Everyoneโs misogynisticโฆ except you.
Youโre the enlightened middleman, the Male Feminist Oracle. Like, cโmon man. How do you people take such performative court jesters seriously? If you spent half as much time encouraging dignity as you do apologizing for things you didnโt invent, we might actually get somewhere.
Porn isn't misogyny, itโs commerce, itโs business.
A supply-demand feedback loop fueled by human nature and technological convenience. Trying to guilt-trip men for consuming it while ignoring the women monetizing it is like blaming fat people for fast food while praising McDonald's for empowering fry cooks.
But sure, Quentin. Keep flogging yourself publicly like youโre auditioning for Woke Superman.
Pathetic.
Why Are Women Not Accountable?
Because most women are rewarded for ardent self-destruction.
And I get it. That sounds like a harsh generalization. It feels unfair. But stick with me, because if you're a man who's been married, divorced, ghosted, or gaslit, youโve probably felt this truth in your bones.
The gap between how men and women handle responsibility isnโt just personal, itโs structural, psychological, and cultural. Women are raised to be liked, not accountable.
From childhood, boys and girls are trained differently. Boys are told to โman up,โ โown your mistakes,โ and โtake the hit.โ Girls are more often comforted, excused, or protected from conflict. Cause theyโre girls. When a boy cries, heโs told heโs weak. When a girl cries, the world reshapes itself to soothe her. One becomes numb. The other becomes entitled. Both are set up to fail love, honesty, and growth.
๐ According to a 2021 study from the University of Cambridge, boys are disciplined more harshly, while girls are more likely to be offered emotional support, even when theyโre at fault. It starts early within their youth and only manifests to a greater extent when they get older.
This early conditioning creates a core differenceโฆ
Men are taught accountability as honor, while women are taught agreeableness as survival. One gender is hardened by consequences; the other is softened by excuses.
As men, we find ourselves bonded over shared struggle. Women bond over shared sentiment. Accountability disrupts sentiment.
Do you see the point Iโm making here?
A woman can gain 50 pounds, spiral into emotional chaos, commodify her sex life, and she'll still be handed a microphone, exclusive podcast invites, a magazine cover, or a brand deal, all in the name of โempowerment.โ
The bar for whatโs celebrated has dropped so low that it's now applauding what once wouldโve been called trauma responses. Once, we sought to overcome trauma. Now we brand it, monetize it, and demand validation for never letting it go.
Make impulsive sexual choices?
Turn every red flag into a personality trait? - put it on a tote bag and call it empowerment?
Sell access to your body for $5.99?
Date a felon for the thrill? - Call it โhealing your inner childโ?
Broadcast your abortion like itโs a skincare routine?
Ghost six guys in a row? - label it โprotecting your peaceโ?
Youโre brave. Youโre bold. Youโre empowered.
Never mind the emotional fallout, the numbness, the inability to form deep connections.
As long as it trends, it thrives. When poor decisions are rewarded with attention, they donโt stop; they metastasize.
Modern culture has created a dangerous double bind, praise women endlessly for their independence, but never hold them accountable for their choices. The rise of individualism has led to an erosion of personal responsibility, especially when that responsibility threatens self-image. A woman sleeping with 500+ men is simply a symptom of her knowing there will be little consequences and other trogaldytes cheering her on.
A little girl who can cry her way out of consequences becomes a woman who believes every emotional reaction deserves justification. Meanwhile, boys are conditioned early to "man up" and take ownership. This disparity becomes a blueprint for adulthood. It explains why women can blow up relationships, blame patriarchy, and still be applauded for their "growth.
The modern woman isnโt being held accountable because they are rewarded and encouraged to ignore accountability altogether. And so, a cycle beginsโฆ
Make choices that erode your well-being.
Gaslight yourself into believing itโs โliberating.โ
Get online applause for it.
Repeat.
We donโt call it what it is, self-destruction, with good lighting. Instead, we stamp it with buzzwords like โbody positivity,โ โsex-positivity,โ or โfinancial empowerment.โ To rebrand it and somehow make it palpable to mainstream society. And theyโve taken the bait!
OnlyFans, casual hookup culture, and performative promiscuity have turned female sexuality into something marketable, fragmented, and hollow. And itโs not just the explicit stuff. Women curate thirst-trap accounts, hint at sexual availability, and subtly monetize attention, all while pretending itโs no big deal.
But when sex becomes a product, the soul becomes collateral.
People will do anything, no matter how absurd, to avoid facing their own souls.
Carl Jung
The women selling their bodies arenโt in control; theyโre enslaved by the same men they think theyโve outwitted. Youโre not a boss babe. Youโre a digital waitress serving depravity, hoping for tips.
Why would capitalism criticize its best customers?
Women.
Itโs not a conspiracy, itโs economics. Women drive over 85% of consumer purchasing decisions in the U.S. (Forbes, 2023).
So media, marketing, and even local news outlets arenโt incentivized to criticize women. Accountability doesnโt sell beauty products. Shame doesnโt move ad space.
Instead, weโve built a multi-billion-dollar industry around telling women theyโre perfect as they are, even when they arenโt. Thatโs emotional consumerism.
The Annoying Twats Who Made It A โGender Studyโ or Historical Discourse
Then you have people who want to make my article a boring ChatGPT gender study and always go back to the same old, tired, tried, and tested argument of โcause menโ. โPatriarchyโ โsystemicโ blah blah, blah blah. These modern parrots act like saying โpatriarchyโ is a mic drop. Newsflash, itโs just pseudo-intellectual glitter covering lazy thinking. At this point, blaming men is less of an argument and more of a nervous tourette like tic, where they gotta find some way to insert it.
A woman choosing to exploit herself, and now itโs โsexual traumaโ.
Ah, yes, the academic word salad tossed with a side of moral superiority.
Let me guess, this dork (above) read half of bell hooks, skimmed a Tumblr thread from 2018, and now feels qualified to hand out naughty philosophical spankings to anyone who doesnโt genuflect to your gender theory gospel?
Pointing out that some women are voluntarily monetizing their sexuality in ways that affect men, relationships, and culture is not "upholding the Madonna/Whore complex"it's noticing. That thing people do with their eyes open and their brain turned on.
Their argument boils down toโฆ
โIf a woman exploits herself, blame the patriarchy. If a man critiques it, heโs the problem. Empathy now!โ
The same busted rusty old ideological vending machine. Insert trauma, dispense moral immunity.
WE AINโT GOING FOR THAT SHIT ANYMORE.
Also, โGender is a construct designed for self-continuation.โ
Did you just quote Foucault with the energy of someone who thinks deodorant is capitalist propaganda? Look, I'm all for complexity, but complexity isnโt an excuse to avoid accountability. Especially when we're talking about people making very public choices and then crying foul when those choices are judged by... the public.
If they can sell it and make a sizable amount of money off it, I can critique it however the fuck I want. Victims-turned-influencers who call every critique "misogyny" and every consequence "patriarchal violence." They are becoming a dying breed, most of which we see right through.
Ah, yes, the โhistorical oppression means we should now sprint face-first into nihilismโ argument. Classic.
So let's have it right, they think, because bad things used to happen to bodies, your solution is to treat them like expired coupons now? Because slavery existed, now it's open season on self-respect? Because the church once overreached, the logical response is... monetized overexposure? And bruv, nobodyโs trying to turn the dial back to โdark ages.โ Weโre just wondering if maybe, just maybe, broadcasting your coochie for tokens isnโt the apex of progress.
You say, โIโd rather live in a world where someone sleeps with 583 men.โ That tells me all I need to know about you.
Some Rare People Got The Message and Knew Better
A lot of People resorted to Ad hominem attacks.
Prototypical for people who have an opposing view but donโt have the mental processing skills to come back with a semi-decent argument.
Cause you canโt!? How on earth can any rational human, man or woman, defend a woman trying to sleep with 500+ men in a day and filming it!? How? Not all acts deserve defense; some just need distance.
(Ooohhh burn)
Just block me, you coward. Instead, you just had to be seen as such an A-Class pearl clutcher, so you just HAD to comment.
If itโs close-minded to object to a woman sleeping with 500+ people, then sure. Weโre pleasantly close-minded.
Yes, โhis womenโ, โHer manโ. Sometimes itโs not to be taken as literally ownership you pretentious moron. Do you object to people saying HIS wife, or HER husband, too? Jesus christ when did people become so fucking baby lotion, soft? They have as much backbone as a bowl of Miracle Whip.
Look at this person's logic. Because I called out the insane behavior of a woman glamorizing sleeping with 500+ men = I hate women. The saaammmme tired argument of "if you criticize anything a woman does, you must hate women" argument served with a side of emotional blackmail and a sprinkle of Bible Belt projection. Cute.
You say these women were โluredโ in. When will women ever hold other women accountable for making shitty decisions? Women canโt perpetually be victims all the time. Itโs such a cop out. Using terms like โlured,โ โgroomed,โ or โmanipulatedโ can be valid in predatory contexts. But when applied to adult women choosing and making fully informed and conscious choices, it erases personal responsibility.
โThey were groomed, but also empowered, but also traumatized, but also shouldnโt be judged, but also are warning others.โ Pick one.
You donโt get to wear a victim badge and an empowerment crown at the same time without people calling out the costume change.
Iโm not shaming women.
Iโm shaming bullsh*t. There's a difference.
If your defense of these women is โwell, society made them do it,โ then congrats, you just admitted itโs a bad idea. You want to protect women? Stop applauding the cliff they're dancing on and start telling the truth about the fall, you donut.
Thereโs a lot of annoying, pedantic writing snobs on Substack. โYouโre not an authorโ.
Things are changing.
The world isnโt being won by writers with the cleanest grammar, itโs being won by the ones who actually say something.
You can string together ten-dollar words, quote Derrida, and write like you're auditioning for a think tank... but if no one feels what you wrote, you didnโt write anything.
You just arranged syllables like a scared little boy hiding behind a thesaurus. A New York Times bestseller doesnโt make you a good writer any more than owning a scalpel makes you a surgeon. (Those things are lobbied for anyway.) And sniffing down your nose at creators who resonate with real people who speak with grit, blood, humor, and heart doesnโt elevate you. It exposes you.
You're not an artist. You're an insecure gatekeeper trying to preserve a club that no one wants to join anymore.
Fuck your โjournalismโ. Most of you are biased jerk-offs anyway.
A writer who hides behind complexity is like a chef who plates garbage with tweezers, looks impressive until you taste it.
New media doesnโt care about your tenure.
It cares about truth.
People subscribe to those who get them. Who bleed like they do. Who lives in the same chaos.
Who can actually solve a problem, not just analyze it to death in 8,000 academic words that say nothing.
So to the snobbish, scholar-core writers/readers still preaching from their ivory keyboards.
๐ Your eraโs over.
Grow a spine. Say what you mean. Speak like a man, not a footnote.
I write like my tribe needs to hear it. Not like your professor needs to grade it. Nobody remembers the best-written book. They remember the one that bled when they needed it most.
โSheโs A Victimโ
This woman is literally playing in our face, bragging about how many men she tried to sleep with, and people are still stupid enough to say sheโs a victim.
This cultural immunity isnโt accidental. It has become a very systemic, slow burn.
The legal system, media narratives, and social media have created a feedback loop that rewards women for framing themselves as victims. According to Pew Research, women are more likely to be believed in interpersonal conflicts, especially in domestic disputes. While men face consequences for emotional reactions, women often walk away with sympathy, even if they sparked the fire.
And here lies the problemโฆ
If accountability is always optional, growth becomes impossible. Empowerment in its truest sense demands ownership.
Letโs talk about what we now glorify under the name of liberationโฆ
Public abortion celebrations
OnlyFans success stories
"Hot girl summer" is a lifestyle, not a joke
Weaponizing social media to manipulate partners
Modern culture hands women a blank check to chase pleasure in all forms, emotionally, sexually, even spiritually, while men are taxed with accountability for decades-old offenses they never committed. As Dr. Anna Lembke explains in Dopamine Nation, unchecked indulgence doesnโt liberate it hollows. And we wonder why the connection feels broken.
Often the victim midnset is mentioned by women as men value truth. Women value social harmony.Men respect the guy who says, โI messed up.โ Women gravitate toward the girl who says, โYouโre not the problem, he was just intimidated.โ
One creates accountability. The other creates comfort.
When women punish each other, itโs rarely direct. Itโs social ostracizing, gossip, subtle sabotage. The goal isnโt clarity itโs control without confrontation. And this bleeds into relationships.
To keep the peace, many women avoid truth. But a peace built on denial is just conflict delayed.
Itโs simply a nicer thing if you say sheโs a victim.
The Random People Obsessed with Semantics
It was so weird. People kept saying.
โShe didnโt SLEEP with anyone!!! Call it what it isโ.
For fuck sake. Are people this dense? When I say someone is sleeping with someone, โSlept withโ is a euphemism. Itโs a socially accepted, softer way of referencing sex, especially in writing or conversation. Itโs not meant to be literal. Nobody thinks two adults just napped fully clothed in respectful silence.
Idiots.
The outrage comes from people who either want to control language or are too literal for their own good. Iโll write whatever I want, Iโll curse when I want. Iโll decide not to curse when I want. And if you donโt like it, block me, bitch. Sometimes I want to be crass, juvenile, and rude. Sometimes I want to be smooth, charming, and clever. And sometimes I want to be brash, brutal, and unrelenting. Thatโs duality. I write for people who feel the same way. Not bitch ass readers who canโt wait to clutch their pearls.
Respectfully.
If you donโt like it.
Suck my dick.
So yes, we say โslept with.โ Not because weโre in denial, but because we have the vocabulary of a functioning adult who knows how to speak like a human being, not a YouTube comment section.
If your worldview is so fragile that euphemisms threaten it, maybe go scream โcopulation!โ into a pillow and come back when youโve calmed down.
When Accountability Happens, Itโll Be Too Late
Rarely, rarely, a woman will own her actions, much like Annie Knight and the damn fools who support her.
But it often comes after the damage is done, a divorce, a breakup, a medical crisis, or watching someone else move on and thrive.
To the women reading thisโฆ
Your strength doesnโt come from always being right. It comes from owning when youโre wrong. The men who love you arenโt looking for perfection, theyโre looking for honesty.
To the menโฆ
Stop accepting performative apologies and emotional manipulation. Hold the line. Because a relationship without accountability isnโt love, itโs a negotiation with someoneโs ego.
Your peace is worth the truth.
Finally we have some bare truth to shot off growing stupidity. Thanks ๐
You really hit it on the head. Individual accountability. The rest of the rationalizations are secondary or just gaslighting noise